hi marlon...got ur message...saykolow...anyways alam mo bang oche broke up with her bf...it's sad, she was really crying last friday...the guy apparently has committed the mortal sin in relationships: may ibang girl. plus, he's guilty of lying, not texting her, not calling her, evading her calls by telling his family to inform oche na wala sia sa house nila even if he is around, etc...you get the drift...it's extremely depressing. add to that the revelation oche made that she still wants to save the relationship!!! what the.... anyways, the most we could do was listen...we doubt if she'd listen to our advice...may tanong ako...is it right to expect equal reaction for every action in relationships? like if you've sacrificed so much, dapat the person you love should sacrifice so much also...like in the case of oche...since she gave up her v, feeling niya mas dapat yung guy mag-exert ng effort na tumawag sa kanya or pick her up sa work...or on a lesser note, another example would be: since tumawag na ako sa yo, ikaw naman tumawag sa akin...or is it still the case of synergy: the effort you put into the relationship is proportional to your resources or capability? therefore i can and should never expect the other to give as much as i do because he has less to give...?